1) People only(EDIT MOSTLY) take advice from people who basically tell them what they want to hear or give them what they already think. This makes sense though, since they would only want advice from someone with values congruent to their own. . . . But if you only wanted advice from yourself why ask a question at all? And if its about sex and how to get it. DONT take advice from someone who doesn't get it or uses canned material to get it once or twice. 2) Red Flags. These are awfully annoying. People think one character trait/flaw or action is the end all. The only(EDIT:One of the only) real red flag is "I saw her with a cock in her mouth and it wasn't mine." People make mistakes, bad decisions, whatever. Remember: The people on the internet don't know the people who you are asking advice about. Hell, I saw a girl eating a cupcake! RED FLAG! Shes going to be fat when shes older, do not pursue! Also Advice Givers: Quit giving absolutes. The only absolute thing you should say is everyone is different. 3) Ladies and Gentlemen, remember that you are asking for advice from strangers, who have not met or heard anything postiive or have any reason to know anything about the person you are posting about. So give us bloody fucking details already! A side note, there is no reason to get mad at the other posters here. Just disagree. You are probably both wrong. your on the interwebs d00d 4) PUAs and the Mystery Method - You would not have to act like that if you had your own genuine consistent personality. If you are real women respect that. Seriously you are taking advice from a man wearing this: Sure he gets more ass than you. But he is also a lot smarter and more interesting than you. 5) Ultimatums. There is never EVER a reason to give one to a girl you have not had sex with yet. Unless you like jacking off a lot. It just shows you were too immature to have sex in the first place. I mean seriously, what good will it ever do for you? Its just immature and controlling and will probably just let you keep your V-card for a few more months/years/decades. 6) High Schoolers. If you want to get laid invite the girl (only the girl, and only you) to your parents house and hang out in the basement watching movies. Have a blanket ready. Try to kiss her. Then go from there. Profit. It works because HS boys and girls BOTH want desperately to experiment sexually. That is the solution to every thread I've seen about HS chicks asking how do I start dating this girl. Well you start by having sex with her first. If you like it and she does too, then you should date or move on to the next girl. 7) Online Dating Advice: Its MOSTLY for ugly and socially awkward people. Fit into that category? Sign up for a pay site and use that. Or just spend more money on drinks (shots) for girls at the bars. Not hot girls, because remember, you are socially awkward. You cant have them until you become a better communicator. Go for the average looking friend of a hot chick. You might get lucky. Remember if you have not met the girl in person, then you two are not dating! Women who date online in my experience do it because: a) Cant get men in person b) Are desperate c) Want to cheat on someone d) Like desperate guys e) Want to anonymously try to do something really kinky f) Are old and don't know what to do after the divorce. g) They want to charge you money (for sex). 8) A Kiss, Blowjob or Raunchy sex romp does not mean I love you. A phone call is not required after one of these. Especially not the day after your first one. Wait a day. Call if you want. See if they want to chill. If they don't then that time was probably the only time you will ever get to do that to them in your life. Just say "NEXT!" Remember some of the best relationships start and end within 24 hours. 9) Being confident gets you most places. But if you are dressed like mystery expect to get kicked out of those places. Women judge you first by how you dress and what shoes you got on your feet. 50% of all women really do believe the clothing makes the man. Do you want to be dressed in all black anymore? 10) If you haven't or can't step back and examined both sides of the situation completely, you are not ready to get advice. and a Bonus Statement for you: You cant love anyone until until you love yourself. /RANT I hope you enjoyed my rant. . . . .