A female friend of mine had her first truly romantic experience with a 34-year-old actor when he was twice her age. They were together for a long while and then broke it off for environmental reasons (long-distance, different points in life, etc.). It was a deeply meaningful experience, extremely intense, very romantic, and mutual. It is noteworthy that this man was not at a loss for choices when it came to getting women, yet he was monogamous with her while it lasted. She moved on and had a few other long-time relationships (i.e., over 6 months), although they did not match the intensity of her first romantic experience. In summary, the relationship between a 17 yr old girl and a 34 yr old man was a positive experience in both partners' lives. Would you say that there was something wrong there, nonetheless?