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  1. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    and we fight so much, not really fighting just me nagging and sometimes her. is this normal?

    more good days then bad.

    like today was bad

    she got pissed because she felt ignored when we were in a group and she felt ignored

    another time at target, i was play hiding and she got mad, then we walked out all mad, not talking til we got to the car

    then i found out she was talked to her friend's 15 year old brother and i got pissed (stupid i know) bro looks older and is social (sexually active too)

    fuck

    yeah dunno

    should i make it serious?
     
  2. Amanda Ann

    Amanda Ann New Member

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    No, sounds like both of you have insecurity issues. Work on those before becoming serious.. :hs:
     
  3. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    how though?
     
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    biggie03 Active Member

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    yes you are right tho.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    if you're having doubts, and generally annoyed with the relationship, it usually means it will not work out.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, you and everyone else here already know this relationship is never going to work out.
     
  7. Does Beast really need to give a response?

    No.
     
  8. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    :rofl: i love how you talk in 3rd person sometimes

    im not being sarcastic

    it's entertaining
     
  9. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    why do people still give him real advice in these threads :squint:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    hah, cause it's not the main forum....and even though we are all bored with this topic people still need some schooling.
     
  11. Amanda Ann

    Amanda Ann New Member

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    Honestly, I don't know. I've never been insecure about a relationship. I've also had the personal motto of "If something bad's going to happen, it's going to happen". No amount of worrying about it is going to stop it from happening, and nagging/getting angry over her going out, will only heighten the chance for it.
     
  12. biggie03

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    i want it to tho
     
  13. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    stfu
     
  14. Dan3S

    Dan3S New Member

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    You need to make it a point to not get mad, to not nag, to not be annoyed. If you feel it coming, just let it rise and let it fall. Dont act on it and say stupid shit that just pushes her away. You have to work hard at your own faults for any relationship to work.
     
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    and dont 'make it serious' because I think the only reason you are thinking about doing that is you think it will somehow 'solve' these little issues. It might cover them up for a little while but they will just get bigger and badder and then you'll both end up hurt.
     
  16. Buttons

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    Make it serious?? You posted in the main forum about how you loved this girl. You're whack!
     
  17. ass_kicker32

    ass_kicker32 New Member

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    Dude, what the fuck? This is like the exact opposite of your last thread, when you were debating on whether or not to tell her you loved her. What do you put in your water?
     
  18. Mperor

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    hey look its another pointless biggie thread
     
  19. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    frequent fights are a really bad sign
     
  20. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    gonna ask her to be my gf tonight lol
     
  21. Must restrain myself from saying something negative.

    Beast
     
  22. Buttons

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    :hsugh: You've posted numerous threads stating she's your gf. You're confusing.
     
  23. Raggity Man

    Raggity Man Lets share the milk of human kindness

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    my now ex g/f would bitch about everything under the sun. i knew it wasnt going to work cause i couldnt put up with it, so i dumped her. alot happier now. seems like you both might be scared to admit that it might not be working.
     
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    Kelli O.O

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    My husband and I did that when we were dating. Then we both grew up.
     
  25. fy-freedom

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    Have to learn tolerance in a relationship. The delimma is you don't know when & where to stop. Means to what extent we should give in, and to what extent we should end the relationship.
     

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