Ok, I am married happily and have been for 7 years. But I do have guy friends that are just that...friends, nothing more. I have one in particular that I need an opinion on. This guy is notorious for trying to play head games and usually I catch them before he completely stumps me but this time I have been stumped. About 2 weeks ago he calls me and asks me what it is that I want from the rest of my life, I ask why and he says that he is getting a divorce from his wife of a little over a year and he tells me that he is moving back to the city that I live in. He also asks me when I am getting a divorce, I haven't mentioned divorce to him so the fact that he brought that up is a little wierd. He says that I need to think about it because when he comes home things are going to be different. Different for who and/or what is beyond me. Now, 4 days ago I get a quick call from him letting me know that he just left his second meeting with his divorce lawyer. I ask him something about wanting to get a divorce and he said that he doesn't 'want' to get a divorce, he's actually doing it and that is the difference between him and me. That struck me as odd too. Then he let me go. That was our whole conversation. It lasted about 2 minutes. 2 days ago I get an email from him asking why he doesn't hear from me unless he calls me first or whatever, I didn't have an answer, but I emailed some bullshit excuse to him and he bought it I suppose because yesterday he sent me another email asking when we are going to have lunch together and he misses me and all that shit... I am so confused by his actions and have asked a few other people what they think of this situation and they don't have answers.... It isn't like he is a young guy trying to bag me or whatever, he is 33 and can pretty much get any other single chic he wants. So tell me, what is he trying to do here?! I am at a fucking loss.