Every relationship has problems. Some more than others. Some people try to make a relationship work after one of them hurts the other. Which brings me to the point of this post... If you hurt your significant other, and you two want to work it out, you need to be committed to being understanding about their pain. If you've done something to betray them and they are hurting as a result, you need to be extra sensitive to them while they recover from the blow you dealt them. If you two have made the committment to try to get through it, then you both have to make a great effort. Whoever hurt the other should take extra care to be patient, sensitive, and understanding. If you can't do that, end the relationship because the desired healing doesn't occur in turmoil.