aight, most of you here knows about my situation 3months ago. (first week of january 06) my gf of 1year broke up with me and supposedly cheated on me. so anyways---thats that---i was hurt and i moved on....a month later she keep contacting me and wanting me back. but i didnt, i stayed strong and moved on. While i was really hurt with my gf, i took a bouncer job downtown to keep me occupied and get my mind off of her....which was successfull and met more new girls....one of which was a cute bartender....but when i asked her out, i got shotdown...... THEN thats when i met my old "Crush" back in High School. Just out of hte Blue she mssged me in myspace (we were suppose to go out back then but i was too busy street racing ).... anyways, i always like this girl and i havent seen her since Junior year in HS (since 1999).... so i got her number....then i took her out to the autoshow---and she keeps complimenting how much "physically" i changed since then (been working out )--then it happens that the club i work at had a company party...so i took her there after the autoshow. While in the club.... thats when we got connected soooo well, that by first 30min of it---all the lust and stuff from HS came out....we were making out throughout the night...then by the end of the night we had sex. we have sooooo much in common and lots of things to catch up. this girl is pretty much down to earth and have 20times MORE things in common with me than my previous girl. anyways, that was valentines day...... so since i work every weekend....she visited me couple times at work, and i would go out with her after. Then on regular weekdays, we would meet up and go to a bar and have couple drinks. But a week after we first hang out....i asked her on a date and she said she didnt like going on a date..... so i thought to myself that this girl just wanna fuck so i was down for it and played along. So this went on and was good for 3 weeks.....we would regularly go out on weekdays when im off, etc..... UNTIL i invited her to go in a ROADTRIP to New York City with 2 of my bestfriends (guys). so there was 3 guys and 1 girl. Anyways, this girl is pretty clingly----always holds my hand, always wanna be touched by me..always wanna kiss....and always wanna be pampered----which i like--but my last relationship wasnt like that.....total opposite...so i wasnt used to it. So we took the trip on thursday night----and we were in the back seat cuddling and mooshy stuff til we get to NYC. first night there.....she got pissed at me coz i didnt wanna go out coz i was tired (worked 16hrs that day)...then everything was fine....saturday night....she got drunk and high....we ended up having sex next to my friends (two twin beds)..but they were too drunk to know too then come sunday.....we went back to timesquare.....first thing we got there she ticked me off again coz she was giving me attitude coz my friends didnt wanna eat at the place she wanted to go (though shes down for any place just that my friends were being picky and it was 2pm and we had nothing to eat yet.)... so i just ignored here...... then we found a place to eat and she was all quiet. After that, the plan was to go shopping----but i lost interest in that city already and just wanna go home. so we went to couple stores and one of my guy friend is a shopping freak so they were both shopping while me and my other friend is just outside the store standing..... after an hour of wait...my other friend and i decided to tell them we gonna split off and do our own thing (bar hop at 4pm LOL).. so we did---they were pissed. so we ended up at TGIF bar and chilled there til 630pm til they met us up....by that time i was tipsy already.....so then we hitup ANOTHER bar---and they were tagging along with us with shitload of shopping bags on their hands. We hit up this nice bar and by the time we got there, they wanted to go somewhere and eat---i told them just to leave (after i offer to buy them drinks and shot and they refuse) and we will just take the cab home. then it came into an arguiment about that they didnt wanna leave us...and they just left. so from 730pm-1030pm, me and my friend bar hop and was totally wasted after hitting about 20-25bars in NYC (one drink and one shot each bar then leave ) so by the end of the night, they were calling us and wanted to meet us up....i dont know what happened after we left the last bar....and i dont know how i got home nor walked 4blocks. But all i know is that, the next day, this girl totally did a 180degrees on me. She wont even talk to me.....she wont even let me touch her, she wont let me pamper her, and she wont even let me kiss her (before this, i had FULL ACCESS). then from what i remember---my other friend who was with her shopping said to me that i was being an asshole to her that night and my other friend threatened her to beat her ass (this guy likes my exgf..and hate this one coz shes too clingly). Then he told me that she was sooo scared and pissed at me that she wanted to get her own room! Then i guess she tried staying up all night---and she logged on my laptop to watch a movie...but while looking for a movie in my laptop, she stumbled upon pics of my ex and i----and also, random AIM convo (dead aim saves it automatically)...and she thinks im a fucking stalker and shit. So our drive back from NYC was rough....i didnt really talk to her at all. til i said something about it---and we argued. she said i was shady for splitting off, etc.... and i told her my reason (they had bags of shit and they didnt wanna drink so i didnt wanna drag them with us). fast forward to yesterday (after we got home). i txt her....to try to call me. she called me when she woke up---and i just wanted to know what happened....and she told me flat out "if you wanted a long conversation about this, ill call you later" she never did til i txt her again.....and from the sense out of my text, feels like she dont wanna talk to me at all. i asked if i can meet up with her after work...and she gave me a bullshit reason saying that she got plans---which i know is bullshit---coz before all this, ANYTIME and EVERYTIME i ask her to go out after work or even if she got work, she will call in. so my last text from her was, "so its like that now huh? fine, ill let it be" her: "like what?" "coz of all this shit that happened this weekend...i tried to apologized to you but you dont even care. im only doing this coz i really like you **her name**.but obviously its like nothing to you. i invited you to go with us and i wanted to see if you can get along with my friends and you did. And if you are pissed off about something you found in my laptop, you need to reconsider coz thats the past and i dont take internet seriously." havent heard from her since then. what should i do? just let this go? or try calling her and work it out? (i tihnk she made up her mind already---but im just assuming) or give it time? like i said, this girl and i always have good times (she even told me first time we met again that *where have you been all this time?* ) and we have lots of things in common and my friend sees her as being my personality in a girls body EDIT: she was in a 5yr relationship that ended new years of 05. then went into another one right after for 7months---which ended last november.