My friend has a kid who I believe i now 8 and he is 24. Yes very young and on top of that she is disabled. Not retarded but slow. It takes her time to learn things but I know for a fact she ain't stupid. He also has a g/f who he's been with for about 5 years. I find her to be more bitch than anything else, I don't say anything or do anything to piss her off (much) because I know it will just end up with him having to deal with it. Now she just got diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis). Now half her body is numb and her back hurts her. What should he do? I'm very serious. I know that he may love her but he's only 24 and really doesn't need to deal with this for the rest of his life (or hers how ever you may look at it). Is there anything I can do because not only is she bitchy to him she is lazy, VERY LAZY. She calls him downstairs to ask him something, tells him he CAN'T use her car even though its his name on it, tells him what he can and can't do day in and day out. I know he loves her and thats all grand and everything but I don't and as that I can say I have a more neutral (ok maybe not nuetral but closer) stand point than he does. Is there anything I can do or say to him. I haven't asked him about any of this yet as he hasn't brought it up but from a few jokes we've made he knows for sure I'd "jump ship" if I was him. I just don't want to see him being with her for 20 years waiting on her none stop because of this shit.