Long story short, I am now engaged in an abusive relationship. She is a sweet girl, however she is very emotional. When she gets sad for w/e reason, she would cry and it will eventually lead to a point which she would pull her hair and purposely hurt herself in a way or another She also tends to hurt me, or my car but not that bad. Last night, she got to a point which she poured nasty stuff on my car and started crying nonstop/pull her hair the cause is that some girl posted "do you remember calling me" on my facebook and I deleted it we live in socal and the girl is from norcal... the reason I deleted it because i thought it could avoid drama as I didnt even remember calling her. that girl is prolly just messing with me. my girl went into my facebook and saw the notification and tripped out. one thing and another led to what I have presented above. any advice is appreciated as I have never engaged in such abusive relationship. I am normally a happy person and this relationship has given me a lot of stress to a point that I am breaking out nonstop. I also feel depressed/sad/confused 1/2 of the time.