I still talk to my ex about once a month as she was such a big part of my life for so long. Why is it that so many people settle for less than what they had. She admiditly has accepted less in her life since we split. Where as i have not accpeted less and that would be why i only date girls for a month then they are gone cause i dont downgrade... So i guess how many of you would be ok with accpeting less than what you had before?