I never thought that at 20 being addicted to sex would be seen as a bad thing. In my group of friends I'm seen as the ladies' man/the player...always getting some from a different girl. I've been with probably 40 girls since I lost my virginity right before I turned 16....and yes I'm clean. It seems that the thought of sex consumes me whenever I meet a new girl that I'm attracted to...and even if I want to wait to mess around/have sex, I always end up going for it anyways. A lot of times I get called a man whore...and it bothers me. I know that having a lot of partners is a game of chance...and that sooner or later I'll probably catch something. I feel like I can't take sex off my mind when dealing with a girl. Thinking back about my numbers...I get a little sick to my stomach. I cannot be around a girl I'm interested in without trying to jump into bed with her.....even if I'm BARELY attracted to her. Just looking for a little input on how I can deal with this.