I just ended my 8 year relationship with my fiance after finding out she has been cheating on me for the last two months with a married guy from her work. We were supposed to be married next year. I found out about her cheating on Saturday. The problem I'm having is I just cannot get her out of my head. I know this is normal. The thing is that she was such the sweet, innocent type of person that no one would ever think that she would cheat. I look at things around my apartment, and everything is attached to a memory of her. I close my eyes, and I see her. What are some good ways to get this shit out of my head faster? Any mental exercises? I'm planning on getting rid of the bed, I just can't sleep in there anymore. I even still lie on "my" side of the bed. I enter the bedroom, and just break down. However, I really don't want to/can't afford to get rid of the rest of my stuff. So basically, any good ways to disassociate my stuff from her memory? Thanks in advance for any advice offered.