I started dating this girl 4 months ago (short time i know), we were crazy about each other, like it just felt special from the moment i met her. I realized i was in love with her even though it hadnt been long, and the night i decided to tell her that she said it first, we were on the same page like crazy. This girl hasnt had a serious boyfriend before and this is her senior year of college, she is super busy and all over the place. She said we should break up, but she hoped we would get back together. She even felt the need to tell me that her parents had broken up and gotten back together. About a week after that i talked to her again, the breakup got changed to a break to last christmas break. She will be home with her family anyway. When we had this talk we were like a couple, we kissed, held hands, she told me she loved me. Then we talked online a few days after that, she was bringing up our first date, being very romantic and flirty, and then at the end she said i love you ill talk to you soon. but wouldnt a break be about not talking? for the past couple weeks ive been on an emotional rollercoaster about this girl, never thought a woman would affect me like this. Ive pretty much decided to wait it out (she comes back at the end of january), so i guess its not so much advice i need, just insight.