Hey all, long time viewer here. I'm down for some input here. I do not know why, but I treat relationships as a company/job. While I can be emotionally involved in a serious level (have in the past), All I have been wanting now and for the past 6 months is a "company" type relationship. Let’s be clear on a few things before I get into my situation and confusion. I will start off with some definitions of my perceptions. Now I define a “company” type relationship as follows. You are in evolved with a person, to the extent of effort and time being converted into currency. You clock in for a weekend, get paid, clock out and do your own thing. A pervious female and I would clash a lot during our 2 year relationship, not due to difference, but because both of us were very strong people, who would not become submissive ever. I used this example as one of my closing arguments to win one of our many debates. “A relationship is like a steak; even the best steak has some fat (trim).” The fat; being drama. This relationship got to be a steak, that not even a fucking Viking would dare to purchase at the market. I mean hell some get that bad! You wouldn’t even glance as this steak. And I would use this to flex my control and always win. “Damn, this steak is getting a little fatty!” I would cry. A back down, and an “I’m sorry” would always result. But any who, if a story would be read by enough, perhaps I could get on with it in off topic… Now on to serious business, I need a formula to approach women, from the beginning and show them what I can give the, and what I want right away. I am not interested, in serious emotional relationships. I need to manage my time and life very seriously and can not risk the drama. I have important events coming out that I need to focus on and process and compute quickly. Self improvement and educational interests for example. I would help in how to make a portfolio of what position I want, and what my credentials are. “I want a cool chick to hang out with, but just to mate with and be buddies.” I have employed this like nets in high seas on a few women recently. And all got distress and played “you’re an asshole, typical” act on me. They backed off as they wanted more, and were not willing to give up the “gold” to the party pirate. They got too emotionally attached they could not treat a relationship with me as a materialistic thing IE Company! Whooo, were getting there, you get me?