Dated a girl for 9 months... Really cared about her. Throughout time we progressivley got worse and worse. We'd fight almost every time we'd hang out [at least once], and we just didn't seem to have the flare anymore. I broke up with her a couple of weeks back, and at first I was satisfied at ending what had become so horrible. Recently all the good times are rushing back, and even though there were fights... I can't stop thinking about the time in between. Sometimes she'd be telling me some story about who did what to who at the busstop the other day, and sometimes I'd be bored... But I even kind of miss that... When it was bad, it was really bad... But when it was good, it was like she got me. She's one of the first people to try and help me out with shit... Is it normal to be like, borderline contemplating trying to get her back after just two weeks? Or do you guys think I should try it again? Another thing... Since breaking up she hasn't been doing really great... From what I've heard she's been impaired from one thing or another frequently and got busted stealing the other day. She's also having some beef with her father, which was happening before we broke up, but it got kind of bad just recently... I'm not sure if I should even step in at a time like that... I don't know. What I'm going to do will ultimatley be decided by me, I just want to hear what some other people think.