Looking for some advice, place to chat, whatever. Here is my current situation-I've been dating this girl for abut a month and we've been hanging out a lot more the last two weeks. We've already made plans this week for Tuesday, Thursday and the weekend. She's my exact type physically (brunette, hot body, long hair, really, really hot in my opinion) and we have a great time together. I was just reading through the "Three Date Rule" thread and I'd have to say I understand what Yail Bloor is saying. Having said all that, we have yet to have sex because she wants to get to know me better etc. We've mostly made out with some heavy petting over her clothes but not even close to any sex. Now, I'm a fairly charming, good-looking guy so I'm usually having sex after a couple of weeks. FYI, we are both in our thirties so we both, obviously, have been in a few relationships. Last night I told her that there is a small part of me that wonders if this is just some casual thing for her and she's just killing time. She assures me that's not the case and that she is very into me and she just moves slow. She thinks about me when we're not together and looks forward to the days we get to hang out. Again, she wants to get to know me better, before we have sex. I want to go with the flow, but at the end of the night when we're on her couch, or mine, and we start kissing I want to rip her clothes off. Am I being played for free entertainment? Should I wait a while longer? Two months, three months? I really dig hanging out with her, and to me, she is a knockout physically. A bit ironic that the girl I really like is holding out while the girls that I've dated casually the past couple of months we're sleeping with me after a few dates.