I need advice/help. I'm currently separated while waiting for a divorce, dating someone new. My new girlfriend (been together 9 months) is rushing me to end things with my ex (house, bills, etc) and I can't do that due to obligations etc. I've told her that she is my future but that I need to close the book on my marriage first. She's very upset and feels I'm choosing the ex over her. I've tried to explain until I'm blue in the face but she's not hearing it. What would you do???