i met this girl in my freshman year in college. we had a lot in common, came from the same town, i always knew how to make her laugh... i thought we were perfect for each other - but the problem was i never had a lot of social experience in highschool and i came in as the biggest nerd. Still, one day that year I managed to get home with her after clubbing and made a pass - it was awkward, not an intimate atmosphere, she seemed physically distant but i went for it anyway because i figured i had nothing left to lose anymore. Rejection and The Speech - but somehow we still remained friends becuase she's part of my social circle. now we're in our junior year, still hang out sometimes but always in groups, never alone (like always)... ive long since given up on her, assumed i was hard friendzoned, especially since she been recently telling me about other guys and asking advice and complaining that she wasn't getting any ( ).. then at this outdoor party, she was kind of tipsy, we wind up alone and she uses me for make-out practice (seriously )... basically going through what we do when we kiss. She bounced with her roomie after the party though... talk about mixed signals! i dont know what to do. part of it is my confidence, the only other guy i know she's been with a while ago was about 5x cooler and more attractive than me. I also don't want to get rejected by a friend - again - I feel like if I ask to hang out w/ just me and her, and/or somehow try to lead it back to my place, she will see it as the proposition that it is and freeze up. It's like its the most extreme form of friend-zone, not even the blue-balling spooning but an actual sexless makeout. Fuck.