So just a quick recap, my grandpa passed away from my mothers side of the family exactly a week ago. Dad has never gotten a long with his father in law, but instead of being mature and respectful about it, hes choosing to act like a little 12yr old dipshit that needs some obediance school. We all know he never liked his father in law, but good fuckin lord show some fuckin respect towards your wife and her side of the family. And right now, hes really pissed me off, I cant take his shit anymore. Frankly, as Im about to leave the house for the funeral after I post this, I want nothing, thats right NOTHING to do with him for the next little while. Im ashamed, embarassed to even be known as his son. Last night, everyone got together at the funeral home to just prepare for today. The children did what they had to do, whether its any spiritual stuff, whatever. Dad really should have stayed home, because you are making our entire family look like a rotten piece of scum. He embarassed me tonight. I have never seen such childish, rude behaviour ever, not even by kids! So it was a night I just wanted to end. Not only was it bad enough sitting there for 4hrs staring at flowers, while people cry, I had a stomach ache to boot and wasnt feeling well. Then I felt like a fuckin babysitter for my fuckin dad So now that dad had to take 2 days off work for the funeral, and so on and so on...hes being a total bitch and giving everyone attitude Last night I was this close, THIS CLOSE to telling him to just beat it and stay the fuck home...dont come because you making us look bad. I was so tempted, blowing up in his face. So in the funeral home, dad's phone ended up going off as everyone is sitting and the room is silent. Great dad I told him to turn the fuckin thing off before going in. (Oh wait, that was pointless since hes too bloody stupid to even know how to turn his cell phone off he still doesnt even know how to fuckin dial!) And what does he do? Takes the call right inside the funeral room, how rude! He had to be told by my sister for him to leave! I couldnt fuckin believe what I just saw! As he got back, he got really impatient, kept staring at his watch and asked my mom when shes done So 5mins later he takes off somewhere, and next thing you know my mother taps me on the shoulder "asking me to excuse myself to go tell dad to STFU and stop laughing!!!" Its bad enough hes talking on the phone just out in the hall, let alone being so loud about it! Do you know how embarassing it was, with mom telling his son to go tell dad to well...pretty much smarten the fuck up? And you can bet everyone knew what was going on His laughing voice was rippling through the big sized room. I would have done it on my own, but my mom picked up on it first and she was FUCKIN PISSED - with every right to be. So here I am excusing myself from about 60 other people who are crying, to go tell dad to STFU!!! I did not want to be seen, how embarassing!!! So I go tell dad to STFU, and I was pretty upset about it. I dont think he took it all that seriously (like always, hes retarded), but he ended up going back to the car and talk to whomever he was talking to. Obviously to him, the call was more important than being around family who are grieving over a loss of a family member. I noticed how he kept constantly walking in and out of the room to see if we were done. Finally, about 2.5 hrs later as everyone was finishing up he walks in. How upsetting is this? And throughout the whole night, he was bitching about something. He kept giving my mom attitude and was picking arguements and raising his voice. God he was annoying the hell out of me, mom doesnt deserve this fuckin treatment. I dont care what you think of her father, show some fuckin respect! Out of your own morals! And last night wasnt even the funeral! The real stuff is in a few hours from now Oh boy, Im not looking forward to it. I wish I could tell dad, just stay home. We got breakfast at grandmas tommorow first thing, then funeral, cementary, lunch, home to change thenm dinner. I will be dead tired. So im off for now, I will update when I get the chance.