I've been with my girlfriend approaching 3 years. I was raised in a very non-Christian religious family. They aren't like that so much anymore, but my sisters and I have completely abandoned it. We follow no religion but we believe in God. I don't mean to offend anyone, its just my personal belief that organized religion is bullshit. My girlfriend was raised in a non-religious house. Her family is all Christian and her mother does occasionally go to church, but she never has and refused to. We have become quite serious and have discussed marriage and children etc. Not so much the children part but of course we have both thought about it. I've always had my mind set on the fact that I would talk about God with my kids, but I would always make the decision ultimately up to them, with no direct influence in one direction or the other. I absolutely never wanted to label my family a certain religion, because I know how hard that is to break away from based on my personal experience. Some parts of my childhood are always going to be embedded in me, however for the most part I have completely removed myself from organized religion. My girlfriend has a very impressionable mind. Let me explain a little without getting too confusing. Whenever she goes and stays with a friend or hangs out with just one person/group I can always tell that she takes a little from them. Her mind is like a sponge and she just sucks up everything around her, and it eventually changes her. I have never really discussed this with her directly, however I have mentioned it somewhat. The only thing that had me not saying it is that she eventually stops hanging out with the friends this has happened with, and it fades away. Now onto this weekend: She went out of town with 5 people (only one of which she knew, a coworker) for the weekend. The 5 people go to Church together. I knew this was going to happen again, and I feel really bad for the way I feel about it. I feel like its kind of selfish but she asked me if I would start going to church with her. She knows that I am so set about organized religion and she knows how I feel about all of it. I don't even know why I asked, but she got all pissy with me when I told her there was no way.. saying "not even just to try?" She comes back tomorrow, and said she wanted to "talk" to me about something but not over the phone. I don't know what to do and its really fucking late so I don't know if I explained it well enough.. but there it is. I guess my main thoughts is this will eventually become a problem between us, and if it doesn't it definitely will if we ever do have kids. I'm in deep with this girl and I honestly have much love for her, but I worry about the future constantly.