For the past 3 or 4 days, my boyfriend and I have been kicked off and resigned on automatically several times a session. When I sign on, he doesn't see me if he's already signed on, and vice versa. When either of us IM the other, the recipient does not get it, even though the sender has a regular IM window, looking as if it was sent. I have no problems with my other IM programs (Yahoo, MSN). This happens with and without DeadAIM installed along with our AIM programs. He does not have any problems with any other of his buddies. As I was typing this, I received a notification that he had just signed on, even though he signed off about ten minutes ago. I just bought and installed a wireless network into my laptop (he is still connected to cable), but these problems began a few days after installation, not immediately. CLIFFS: delayed sign-on notifications to other users, and IMs not going through to recipient. WTF is going on?