ah ive been getting a bit frustrated with my GF latley. Weve been going out for a year and a half, mor ethan that actually...when we started going out we were both virgins at 21, after 3 months we lost it to eachother, but we rarely had sex. she didnt want it to become the focus. we would do everything else tho, oral, and lots of messing around, just not penetration, no anal....so i was fine with that and unerstood it, then we were on and off with it, wed go a month or 2 having sex but rarely, then wed stop, is been confusing i guess, i just want it all the time, im a guy what can i say...so anyway weve been off for a few months now and i want to start again, but even if we dont, i feel like any physical stuff is far and few between. we do stuff atleast 1x a week, maybe 2, hardly ever 3. usually 1-2. for me, i can do it everyday and want to, but she is always too tired. so i asked her about it the other day, casually, not trying to start a fight or anything....i can undedrstand that shes tired, she usually has to wake up early (shes nt a morning person) and then she works long days, varys between 9-12-14 hrs sometimes, and shes always on her feet, never gets to sit down. so i can see that she would be tired...so when she gets home, she wants to lay on the couch an relax and watch tv, but to me that get really old. i asked her why she always says shes tied and she says that physical stuff after work is just like more work, cuz u have to move around etc...to me, it would be worth it, and believe me, i have to work for it if i want it, back rubs, leg rubs, etc, then i do a ton to please her...i justfeel like it shouldnt be associated with work, and that we should be able to compramise at like 2x or 3x a week, but i feel like she doesnt want to talk about it.... is there really anything i can do? i feel as tho there isnt anything but try to talk to her again about it and get no where...ugg. i also tink that once we hit the 2 times in one week, she thinks that thats good enough and then wonk make any effort the rest of the week...oh and she NEVER initiates it, NEVER, i always have to initiate it and it take like an hour before i can een get close.