k here is the story: my dad had me when he was 52, i have one older brother. as a kid my mom ran out. when my bro was 18 he moved out, leaving me as the last one left. flash forward, i am 21, my dad is 72. he is somewhat able bodied. he has lung cancer but is not bed ridden or anything like that, he actually still goes to work sometimes. i have been considering moving out, as i feel as though i am at that age, i have a job that pays well enough to allow me to do so and i have a ready/willing roommate. the issue is that my family is making me out to be the d-bag for leaving my dad 'helpless' my dad says it doesnt really bug him if i go and he says he will figure out what he wants to do with himself (cus i leave he will prolly have to move out of the house)... my dad is prideful though, so the family tells me he is just being stubborn and i should stay (same family that bailed on us already).... im i the d-bag for leaving??