I had asked my boyfriend if he would be interested in going to Cabo this Summer. We've been together for 4 years and we have never really been anywhere exotic, so I figured that would be a fun place to visit. He almost immediately shot that idea down and explained to me that he can think of other things to spend his money on. Mind you, my boyfriend is not a big drinker. He thinks the main reason I want to go is to get drunk. If im not mistaken, there are a lot of things to do in Cabo. (i.e snorkeling, surfing, horseback riding, etc.) So jokingly I said I would just go by myself. He told me if I go on any vacation without him, then it means Im unhappy with our relationship. To top it off, he told me he would break up with me if i even considered going. Now, am i being the insane one for thinking that argument is absolutely ridiculous? I dont want to say anything else to him right now in fear that i will say something i regret. Please help. Any advice is helpful.