Hello Everyone, I am not sure if my gf is fooling on me or she is too naive. I feel I am cheating in this relationship. Can any one give me some opinions? Me and my girl have known each other for 2 years, we are in mid 20s. She is a single child in the family, stubborn, self-confident and have bottomlines in a relationship. She had 2 exs and both of her exs are very nice to her. Not only that, everyone in her life seems to be very nice to her. Therefore, she is like a little princess in any where. To be with her in the first year, I feel very happy. It's because I thought I finally have someone I love to be with. We've been to alot of places by TTC and we had lots of fun. I've met her parents and they are great people to be with. Later on, we've got a job after graduated and we are planning to get settled. However, as times goes by, I have doubts about the relationship. During this 2 years, I paid for all of the expenses in the relationship. I mean ALL, including transportation, food and entertainment fee. I'd never get to know any of her other friends. I tried to communicate with her about the problem and she's saying that she expected guys should pay for all of the expenses, else how could she depend her life on this guy in the future. However, she spent alot of money for special days on me only (ex, christmas). And since she spent most of the time with me, she doesn't have her social life, then how could she introduce her friends to me. Often, if I don't spend my free time with her, she will be mad. However, she wouldn't give me a call even if she has the time. She said her exs always give her call, so it became her habit of not calling people but she will call her parents if she has time. Sound makes sense to me that she is not fooling me. If she isn't serious with me, why she let me meet her parents? However, deep inside my heart. I am complaining, how come she does not share part of the relationship expense with me? how come I'd never get to know her friends? How can we build a future if she does not want to spend any money in a relationship? She said I should trust her that she will share part of the expense when we get married cuz she doesn't expect one person can handle all of the family expenses. Experiencing the contraditions in the relationship, I have doubts to continue with her. I mentioned to her about that if we couldn't meet both of our expectation, it is very hard to continue. I can't expect to pay for all of the expense in a relationship and she can't expect that she would share part of the expenses. My expectation is not like sharing 50-50, but at least just share a bit to make me feel better. Anyway, now I feel like so happy to be with her but so mad whenever I am paying the expenses. Whenever I don't get to see her, I feel so anxious. However, if I get to see her, I feel sort of disappointed about she's doing the same thing again to me. I talked to her about the expense problem and she said she would try to change. However, I went to date with her last night and she let me down. I feel like I am cheating in this relationship by being a cheap bastard here. If she is that naive, then I think I really cheat on her. However, sometime I feel that she knows how to pick something to be naive with and something don't, that made me feel like she's trying to fool me by putting her what so called relationship theory... Any way, any one have any ideas?