ive looked at numerous threads on stretching, but i guess i just need personal advice. ive had my ears pierced at a 20ga for about 2 weeks now, and they dont hurt anymore. i took one out and it came out and went back in fine, but a little bit of puss came out. i got a set of 14ga and im just wondering if i'm ready to start stretching. they arent sore anymore so i guess theyre healed all the way. any advice from any of the veteran stretchers?