Hey guys.. well things ended between me and my ex of 3 years about 2 months ago. For the last month I've been dating this girl whom I really like. It started out great from day one..we spent the night together and cuddled almost every night, and we did alot together...she said she wasn't trying to rush into things so i tried to let it take its own course. It finally got the the point where she was finally breaking from her "i don't want to get too close cause I don't want to get hurt" shell and we had a great weekend, I got a text from her while she was out with her friend on her friends birthday saying she was thinking about me, and the next day we spent the evening together, and had sex for the first time(great sex I might add..she felt the same way too). The next day we woke up and stayed in bed together for the whole day, and then she decided she was going to go hang out with her guy friend that night...that was fine...she even called me at 12:00 that night when she got home. Well since then she's talking to him more(she's known him for 5 years...says there is nothing to worry about) the night after that she went out with her lawyer, then out with her best girl friend again, we spent thanksgiving evening together at her friend house then mine for the night, spent the day Friday together shoppping(where I spent a ton of money I didn't have) then that was it for the weekend except on Sunday. Well the other night (the Friday night) we spent together she said I don't feel like making out when i went to kiss her goodnight, and that the sex we had was too soon(not that she was regretting it, just it was too soon), and that she is a challenge for a guy cause she is so independent, and has a very tough wall to break down cause she doesn't want to get hurt by anyone. Anyway I'm the worrying type and she tells me if I push it she'll freak out and all that, plus that we can't see each other everyday cause then we'll get tired of each other. Well keep in mind i'm being treated for bi-polar disorder and she knows this, but i don't know if she understands fully how my mind works cause of this. Anyway the other night her guy friend started shit on myspace telling me that he was going out with her Friday night instead of me, and making some comments about me that I didn't appreciate...just because this girl got in a word fight with a lady friend of his, this guy does not know me at all and has never met me. Anyway her total attitude has changed and now I feel as though the friends ladder is where I stand. But she still calls me everyday, and emails me everyday, and lets me kiss her goodbye when we leave... so what gives guys? should i give up so my worrysome mind can be at ease and I can be sad and down cause this awesome girl is gone? or just keep dealing with it and see what happens. She says she likes me, and likes hanging out with me, but unfortunately my feelings are a little stronger towards her on this. I feel like this all she cares about is not getting hurt herself, and she does so much that she ends up hurting the ones who want to care about her...if that makes sense oh let me add....she also doesn't want to get caught up in baby mama drama..since I have a child...but there hasn't been much of it, plus she is worried i'd go back to my ex if she wanted to come back....which I know I won't do help me out guys..