My gf was a pot head in high school and got caught with it alot. Two days ago she got pulled over for doing 51 in a 35 and she found out she failed her drug test again for the 2nd time. Now shes going to be locked up for 4-6 months or go to bootcamp for 6 months. I told her before hand that if she ever got arrested again and had to serve time that I would give her the boot. Now shes in jail and I told her that I'm moving out of the apt and leaving her. I just feel bad b/c shes so "in love" with me and I just don't think I should have to deal with this bullshit. I told her that once she gets out we could talk and take it from there but by no means will I be waiting around for her. Edit: We have only been together for a year and it was pretty much just a rebound relationship.