situation: steady relationship. gf calls. i'm stressed out, dont want to talk. after a few calls i pick up, to tell her that im stressed out and dont want to talk. she takes it badly, as if i can't meet some needs she has about phone time. is this some recurrent problem or is it just me? do you guys out there ever just want to disconnect from the world, as well as your gf, for an evening or a day? and how do you go about it? to the girls, is this something you just don't understand? she argues that if i love her i should never need to take a break in which i dont even want to spend 5 minutes on the phone.