My dad caught me smoking. Thing is he didn't say anything to me, he's just pretended that he didn't see it. Or so I thought. Turns out he said to my sister that he'd caught me and thought I was stupid for doing it in his own garden. And that he was fed up of me moaning about having no money and spending what he lent me on cigarettes. Why does he think it's anything to do with him? Yeah, I live with him, but only till mid-december. I also pay my own way and rarely ask him for any cash. If I do it's usually paid back within a couple of weeks. I don't understand why he has to go behind my back rather than telling me things face to face. We've never been that close and he went a bit crazy when he divorced my mom. He had a knife to my throat at one point, because I stopped him from hanging himself Maybe I should have let him do it! As far as i see it, smoking isn't a big deal anyway. I'm old enough to make my own decisions. He did say to my sister that he'd leave me to it as its "my life", which is good. Annoying that he tells my sister these things and not me. She smokes too btw, not sure if my dad knows. How can I get my dad to be more open about things? He's never even sat me down and told me "the birds and the bees" or any of that other stuff you see on TV. I dunno about my friends and their experiences, not asked anyone as it's a pretty gay situation they'd probably just laugh at me Good thing he doesn't know I smoke weed huh.