I have a dilemma. Should I tell a girl something I believe 100% she has the right to know about her ex-b/f, that is extremely personal (it is important, a truth, and a secret) -knowing that this information might cause her: a) great pain and hurt; b) to freak out big time; c) untold anxiety; d) unlimited sadness; e) anger and revenge; f) shame, or g) hopefully understanding and insight as to what fucked up her relationship with him and how wrong she was? I also know her ex-b/f still cares for her and he would like to be friends with her. She don’t want to have anything to do with him because she thinks he deceived her (he didn’t). I know the truth. Should the truth always be told regardless of circumstance? Any general thoughts?