Okay so I cheated on my wife. Well I never had sex with the girl. We kissed....and touched. The thing is that it only lasted about 3 weeks, and it was at work. So we sort of flirted for about 3 months before that, so it was kind of a build up than just a fling...if you like. Was just a summer job for me. And the reason for ending it was that we almost got caught...and we where getting way to close to each other. So in a way I got away with it. The wife is none the wiser. She just noticed I sent 420 text messages last month....and now I'm not texting at all. BUT, always a but. It's eating away inside me. I love my wife. But the thing is that I have and had real feelings for this girl. I don't want to talk to my wife about it. She will leave me, that's a certain. I still want to be friends with this girl though. We got along really well. But she seems to be ignoring my texts. I sent her a text last week saying how hard a time I'm having. Cause I mean I have nobody else to talk to. She replied saying 'that I can come to her if I ever need to talk' So I replied the next day saying that 'I'm snowed under with uni work and I'm missing her.' And no reply. We had agreed before that we will still be friends, so it kind of hurt that she never replied. So I asked one of her friends on MSN last night if she is replying her texts. And she said no as well. This friend walked in on us at work by the way. So I'm thinking that she might have run out of credit on her phone. This Girl is 16 by the way. I'm 20 (I know young to be married). 16 is perfectly legal as well. But she is stunning as well. Blonde hair, blue eyes, size 6, school captain, straight As student, top athlete. I think I was kind of in awe that a girl like 'that' would be into a guy like me. I mean I'm a geek to be honest. 6ft2, over 210lb weight, study 'Molecular and Cellular Biology.' Not sure what I will gain from this, but it always helps to write stuff down when I have a lot on my mind. Any advice is welcome. Just to point out, I NEVER thought I'd cheat on my wife. It's just something that happened.