srry no cliffs anyways, been with an awesome girl for 8 mnths but i've come to the point were i'm not sure if i really want to keep dating her. main reason for this is that i have trust issues as she seems to not mention nor invite me to some of her friends' parties. you have to understand that she is somewhat of a free spirit, but in my book going out to parties drinking and not telling your bf about it is not the way relationships are done. she also easily gets drunk and it makes me sometimes feel furious. i kinda understand that she can't drink as openly w/ me around but i think it's something that can be changed if she really wants to. i trust her, but i don't trust people when they drink (not even myself). i kinda want to see if this is trust issues arising from me that are messing me up or am i seeing valid point. if you want to know, i haven't talked to her about this but it's possible that she stopped telling me about these parties cause i was getting decently upset when she would tell me of one and sugguest that she would like to go alone. i've been thinking lately of doing the same stuff to her in an obvious manner to see the reaction, but today i kinda just feel like saying "fuck it" and move on. any.. and i really mean any advice would be appreciated. i don't want to ruin a good thing if the problem is mine and fixable.