Well, I've never really posted in here but have been a long time reader and thought I made good decisions for myself but, recently, I think I may need some advice. Well first the back story: When I was in high school I began dating this girl, lets call her Jenn. Anyways Jenn and I dated all through high school untill our senior year. Well, Jenn and I had this friend, Sandy, that would always hang out with us and she really was a best friend of mine. Anways, Sandy had a thing for me but I never persued untill Jenn and I broke up for a summer. Things were good with Sandy and I, and I eventually took her virginity. Well, being the young dumb kid I was back then Jenn wanted to get back together, and I acutally did. Well, as you could imagine, the friendship was never the same, Jenn and I eventually broke up for good, and we all graduated and went our seperate ways. Fast forward about 3 years: This past June, I go to a bar that my buddy works at after work to get a beer, and it just so happens Sandy is there celebrating her 21st bday. It was somewhat akward for a few mins but we got to talking and I told her how young and stupid I was for what I did to her, told her I still think about her from time to time, and she actually said she had feelings for me to this day but she just started dating someone. Anyways, we're catching up, doing shots, having a good time, and she starts coming on to me when her bf leaves to have a smoke. I didnt think anything of it, she was wasted and it was really a confusing meeting. Anyways she leaves and I didnt really ever expect anything. Then about a week ago, I ran into her at another bar, we talk more about that night, more about our past which is more in depth now that we're not drunk as hell. She had just broken up with her bf because he works all time time and she was newly single. We go outside, we're all alone, and outta the blue I said "What if I kissed you right now?" She said, "You wouldn't." Well, I did and we start getting heavy and decide to goto her house. We ended up have some pretty passionate sex, just like when we were first together. I leave and told her I would call her the next day. I call and say whats up, and wanted to talk about the night before. That night she was really all over me and seemed interested. I said, well, about last night I was confused weather or not you just wanted to stay friends or maybe start a relationship. She said she wants to stay friends, shes had too many bfs for too long. But here's my dilema: I've totally fallin for this girl all over again. She makes me feel like I'm 16 years old and theres no care in the world. Now, I'm in Florida for the week, and said I'd call her when I get back. What should I say to her now? I dont want to tell her I've fallen for her when she's already said she doesnt want a bf right now. And I think it would be strange being around her as friends because of the feelings I have for her. I guess im just confused by why she slept with me after so long, and after leaving her bf. Any advice would be grealty appreciated.