and does it bother you at all? Mine does and at first I didn't really care but now it is starting to bother me quite a bit. A little background: She was married when I met her and had been for 7 years. Was with the guy for 3 years before that. We flirted a little when i met but that was about it. She got divorced and a few months later we started dating and have been for about a year and a half now. The divorce was completely civil, no animosity at all. They fell out of love years ago and basically lived as roommates for the last couple of years as just friends. The guy shows no ill will towards me at all. At first she wanted to be free of him and when i met her she talked about how they should never have married and are completely different from each other and should have just been friends. She said how he kind of inhibited a lot of things she could have done in her life differently. However now she is all the sudden inviting him out everywhere and he goes out with both of us sometimes and stuff like that. I guess it bothers me more and more that she is getting so close to him again. I know that they would never get back together or anything, hard to explain but I just know. But it's just a reversal in her position from how she hated this guy before and now invites him everywhere (they share a lot of common friends). In the past for me I have always moved on from my exes. I might be okay with it but the guy is kind of a douche and I get to listen to him go on about and make snide remarks to her sometimes about how they used to be together and all. Just wondering thoughts on this, maybe i am just being insecure.