Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Kuzcotopia, Aug 25, 2005.
They weren't very important to their S/O?
Depends, some days Im his priority, otherwise Im not, so long as they balance eachother out, its all good for me
You know I can't say that I have ever felt that way. I can say though that unintentionally I have made my past S/O's feel that way. I know that it isn't a good feeling though, and I do feel bad for it, but it is kind of the way i am.
if both people are at least "mindfull" of one another... this shouldnt happen... you will have good and bad times.
Yeah sometimes, then I throw a temper tantrum that usually involves a "PAY ATTENTION TO ME!" text message then he obliges But I do understand that different days bring different priorities
Doesn't that feeling just suck? I used to have to compete with hockey, guitar lessons, guitar practice, HIS family, his other women, booze, his cousin, rowing, etc. no wonder I saw him every 10 days or so. Oh and let's not foget when he wanted to "be alone"...creep.
doesn't the 'his other women' part kind of give you a BIG clue there?
Exactly what i was thinking
ive felt like that before.. just talk about it ... and you might see that its not the case.
i've felt that way... good listening is very important to me.
oh, and i don't need to be around the guy i'm dating 24/7, but contact or calls once/twice a week (more/less depending on schedules) are fine. i don't like being shafted ALL the time.
i deffffffinatly felt like that tonite when we had plans and he fell asleep. im not the type to get pissed off and yell, im the type to get offended and hurt, then cry.
dont get all hurt by it.. look at it at his p.o.v., what does he do for work? maybe he just a had tough ass day, got comfy watching tv and PTFO? my ex used to get pissed at me all the time.. i work early morning like 5:30am-2. so of course i had to be in bed no later then midnite, even that was pushing it.. she would come over, and i would just fall asleep cuz of a long hard days work.. its hard when ur s.o. doesnt do shit and has mommy and daddy supporting them 24/7 and your the one busting your ass everyday.. makes it hard in a relationship (i've come to expierence this in my past g/f)
anyways, just talk to him.. dont get all pissed, cuz it would make me pissed when she got pissed just cuz i fell asleep.. u know?
but don't play the victim, you have as much choice to leave as you do to stay there.
oh jesus christ
typical dumb chick much?
Oh come on now.... I'm sure you love being shafted
Oh jeez.... you're one of THOSE. Just be glad he hasn't dumped your ass for that shit; I sure as hell would. Maybe he just had a long day and was tired, ever think of that? If that were me in that situation, I'd much rather have an understanding girl who didn't get offended.
maybe you arent or maybe you are and you're a little insecure
you know what i hate?
i hate it when you don't have time to chill with your girlfriend and she bitches because you are so fucking busy earning money to take her out and shit
and then when you call to talk, shes too busy having fun with her friends and blows you off completely
"ok imma call you back"
and I have to be the one to call back
fuck no im not doing that shit ever again
oh and i never do that fucking bullshit to her
"i need my time alone, i need to chill with my friends"
i never say that bullshit to her wdf