Long time no see guys Well I'm more or less officially not married anymore And I've decided time for some changes. Goen in for Lasik on the 22nd to have my eyes done ($3150 at www.lasikmd.com) in vancouver and now I recieved a email from the local Fire Department wanting me to come in a week later to discuss me joining. Now I'm kinda on the fence because I'm actually seriously considering going to school and joining the Army reserves as an Infantry officer since well my marriage is done for so nothing to lose. But it might mean putting my hopes for the fire department on hold. Thoughts?