I'm trying to get some marketing ideas for an online dating site I built recently ... I can't seem to get a steady flow of visitors. I was able to generate about 1k uniques for the month of April through some message board posts. Obviously I have to try to get on the search engines, but apparently they can take up to a year to get on, and thats with participating in backlink programs, etc. I'm pretty poor so paid advertising is kinda out of the question, although I was planning on funneling all profits back into something like adwords ... once I turn a profit. Anyone here have an established site and would be willing to give me pointers? I might even be willing to take on a marketing partner if a proven person is interested... any suggestions or comments is appreciated.