Is anyone's bf/gf still friends with the ex? My gf is friends with her ex. He lives overseas though, so they email each other about once a week or so. No phone calls, thankfully. But now, he is planning to get her an iPod Mini. I think it's a little inappropriate to accept gifts like that from an ex, but she says i have nothing to worry about. She says its just a gift, and has no meaning or intention behind it. I do trust her and all, but I dunno... Also, her ex is a friend of mine, sorta. He's from the same circle of friends, but I wouldn't say me and him were good friends or anything. But I don't have any reason to really dislike him or distrust him. I guess I'm just looking for opinions from people who have s.o's that are still friends with the ex. How do you deal with it? Cliffs: gf friends with ex. I am also sorta friends with him (but not good friends or anything). he is getting her an ipod. Do I put up with it?