I just got back from my girl's place. We had sex for an hour and a half. I had a blast, things seemed great. She came several times, even had some ass play. After we're done I knew I should have just got up and left instead of reviewing the activities. To make a long story short she says there's more I can do and that I can be more forceful. I ask her what? I mean I pull her hair, I smack her ass, and I fuck her hard, but it doesn't seem to be enough. I know how girls operate... I have to come up with these "new ideas" on my own and if she has to tell me what to do it won't be "special"... Horseshit is what I say... She likes a lot of dirty talk in the middle of the act but I'm really not that imaginative and talkative while I'm having sex... Talking during sex seems redundant and often times just plain silly... I do it, but not that much or often. Any ideas for being more "forceful" or "aggressive"?