Apparently I am one of those kind of people...

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    First of all, I am not whining or anything at all. I am just commeting at this thought that just came into my head. So please, don't get too worked out about it, (ok beers? :o)

    So going on-topic, I am one of those people who are either too good looking or the complete opposite. Reason? When I pass around women, I get that look (from head to toes) but they don't say anything. Not even a hello.

    When I go to them to greet them, they look at me like they just are very afraid.

    Come on, I dress pretty "normal", don't have any tumors on my face. So what gives?
     
  2. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Some other women might like to disagree with you :dunno:
     
  3. lauren

    lauren OT Supporter

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    pics?


    and what's the point of this thread?
     
  4. forgotmyname

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    It's just an observation.
     
  5. lauren

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    well, if you want to know 'what gives' you're going to need to post pics.


    i mean, dude, you are asking for a discussion about your looks. you cant do that without producing a starting point.
     
  6. lauren

    lauren OT Supporter

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    yeh headbands arent 'normal' :o
     
  7. Two toys

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    its the fear in you. they can smell it and it makes them sick.
     
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    You like guido from the middle east.
     
  9. forgotmyname

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    :rofl:
     
  10. forgotmyname

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    No longer I wear headbands.

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  11. forgotmyname

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    You are probably the most annoying troll on OT. :dunno:
     
  12. coldstone

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    :o

    Yeah, bro. It's something else. :dunno:
     
  13. mistergixter

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    why so serious. you have a mean look to you. smile.
     
  14. forgotmyname

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    Because I can't smile for shit. If I do, it looks forced and fake.
     
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    maybe its more the lack of smiling or some other characteristic that makes you unapproachable. based on pic #2, you're good looking, but I see good looking guys getting attention all the time so I don't think that's it. Don't stand with your arms crossed, if you're not going to smile at least relax your face, and do other subtle things to make yourself more "open"
     
  16. forgotmyname

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    Like?
     
  17. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    So try finding some happiness.

    You don't fake a smile. You smile because you are happy.
     
  18. forgotmyname

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    Thanks for your input. Maybe thats why I get these reactions.
     
  19. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    :werd: this is what I was saying
     
  21. Yail Bloor

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    because women frequently approach men and do the picking up
     
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    Also, when someone genuinely smiles, they squint to a certain degree that is different for everyone. Practice in a mirror and squint to different degrees.
     
  23. RebootEnzo

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    Wouldn't it be easier just to be happy?
     
  24. Viper

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  25. Falconer

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    you're probably too serious looking all the time.

    I'm the same way. People say (before they met me) they thought I was elitist and unapproachable.

    I'm like "sorry I don't walk around with a fucking smile on my face all day like some corporate cheerleader who is excited that she has to work a mandatory weekend of unpaid overtime." :ugh: :rofl:

    Usually if the person laughs at that comment, they are on my wavelength and we will be friends forever. And if they take offense and/or don't get it and/or don't laugh, they're probably dumb and we have nothing in common.

    :bowrofl:

    Seriously tho dude I have to put forth like 110% effort in order to "look approachable" or even pleasant. I don't understand people. I don't smile constantly, because I'm not happy constantly. But I also don't walk around with a scowl or an angry face. My face is usually neutral, because I'm feeling neutral. I'm not happy, I'm not sad, I'm not excited, I'm not pissed off. I'm neutral. How you should be, right in the middle of the continuum most of the time. But people always see a neutral face and think "OMG THAT GUYS IS SO MEAN AND PISSED OFF!!!!!"
     

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