I haven't been in this forum in many years. Anyway, say I'm with a girl and have been with her for about 6 months. She's a bit younger but at 22 would think she'd be a bit more mature. I'm starting to pick at the qualities in her that I don't like. There are other things but I'll stick to one subject I know I know, love is blind. Hell things are great when we're together. I guess I'll get to the point. I don't like the fact that she smokes. By smoking I not only mean cigarettes but her excessive use of pot. She gets high every day and can't go more than a couple days without it and prefers to smoke everyday. I know what it's like to get high, I used to every once in a while but for me it was a weekend party thing to do. I didn't depend on it to get through my day. Her reasonings for using all the time is that it helps her concentrate and focus with her school I'm sorry but when her and her bad influence sister spend more than 100 a week on shit between the two of them I think it's a bit out of control. Loading bowl after bowl of bong hits. It's just immature in my mind and kind of annoying. I don't wanna be around it anymore. I'm way past that phase of my life. I guess I'm thinking she'll grow out of it but I don't see her slowing down or stopping any time soon. Sometimes I feel like, "What have I got myself into" with this girl. I want to be with her but I don't want to be with her habit. I don't really know what I'm asking for here, maybe just ranting. There's prob not a lot of advice one can give. Either get out of the relationship or put up with it cuz you knew what you were getting into.