I want to see if other people have noticed a distinction. This paragraph is about women. Reverse it for men: I am realizing that "physical beauty" is not always proportional to "femininity." I was thinking about the FB I had who is the least physically attractive person I've ever fucked when it comes to pure looks, but she was extremely feminine which in itself was extremely attractive on a subconscious level; I would get aroused very easily with her. The way she moved. The way she talked. The way she submitted. The way she knew her role as a woman (which is why i called this thread "the sexist thread") (and no, I don't mean in the kitchen, let's keep this thread mature. She only cooked for me once in 6 months ) Before you start: my gfs were also very feminine, and I get aroused very easily with my gfs. I think I just noticed the disparity between looks and femininity more with my FB. But it really popped into my head the other day because I saw a woman who was very physically attractive, but wasn't terribly feminine. I don't know how to explain it. I assume that women notice this, too. Unattractive but "manly" (masculine) guys get laid all the time. I assume the masculine energy is attractive to women. As I mature, I find that not only am I attracted to physically sexy chicks, but also more to femininity. Sometimes I find myself getting turned on around my gf not because she's wearing anything particularly sexy or slutty (altho that doesn't hurt anything ), but because something she did was feminine. Discuss.