-=Bachelor Party HELP=-<-DRAMA->

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  1. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    So I'm throwing a bachelor party for my best friend, whom I've known since sixth grade. He is getting married in August to a girl that he has been with since they were both 18. We're now 26, and as his best man I’ve planned a stop and the "best" strip club here in the Twin Cities; yet, here is the catch:
    His fiancé has been acting really "put off" about us going to the club. I've asked my friend if he actually minds going to the club and he said he doesn’t care what we do as long as everyone in attendance has fun. We'll his fiancé informed my wife that she "doesn't care if we go to a strip club". WHAT? Turns out she was acting put off in hopes of getting us to not take him there…
    Here is the question: Should we go anyway? :naughty:
    An important fact to this story on his character is his fiancé is the ONLY girl he has EVER been with, he doesn’t drink, and he’s never done a drug to save his life. :eek3:
     
  2. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    Thanks for your serious advice OT!
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I'm gonna go against the grain here and say if it were me, I wouldn't go to the strip club.

    That being said, it seems the vast majority of men cannot fathom the idea of enjoying a bachelor party without strippers. So do whatever you think is best for your boy.
     
  5. just_another_on

    just_another_on Active Member

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    Why wouldnt you?

    Strip clubs are boring/lame if you dont drink. Fact of the matter is 90% of the girls WILL NOT look good UNTIL you consume some alcohol. So your friend might not enjoy it but im sure you and the rest of the wedding party will enjoy it.

    Honestly, the thing w/ bachelor parties that i've noticed, its about the bro's hanging. What you do means nothing. Last bachelor party I went to, started @ 12pm, went paintballing, after that we went to a steak house, had some good food and drinks, then went to a strip club and all that jazz.

    Was a good night, but mainly because its friends actually enjoying each other. Alcohol just makes things more fun.
     
  6. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    That's the thing. She's not going to mad at him. I more concerned about my relationship with him.
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I can tell I'm going to have to pick my best man very carefully. :rofl: I don't drink or go to strip clubs.

    I'm with JAO though, just focus on what would be a good time for your boy(s).
     
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    I'll say go. Sounds like harmless fun
     
  9. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    The plan is to Paintball -> Machine Gun Range -> Strip Club?-> Camp
     
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    Sounds like a good night to me!
     
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    you think taking him to a strip club will do harm to your friendship?
     
  12. Nomad

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    never been to a strip club so got no input....

    just have fun and cry over the fact your straight edge friend is now even more restricted than before
     
  13. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    Possibly, this guy is one shade from perfect.
     
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    If he hates it, bail quick and go get plowed at camp!
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Well the goal of a bachelor party isn't to upset the groom. :mamoru: I say just do whatever it takes to show him a good time- even if his idea of a good time isn't what you think it should be.
     
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    Sounds like you got a good day.

    If he doesnt like the strip club, bail early. DOnt waste time/money considering every thing there costs money.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I think the bullshit about strip clubs for bachelor parties is the BS comment that it's the guys "last chance" for hot chicks all over them naked....when guys go to strip clubs after they're married :rolleyes:
     
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    :rofl:

    I have single friends that just refuse to go to strip clubs.

    I go to one strip club, and its cause my platonic lifemate is a bartender at one.
     
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    Honestly, this sounds about how I've been reflecting on it. The thing I can't get passed is why the hell wouldn't he just tell me himself? Is it necessary to try and have your future-wife get your out of it? It's so bizarre considering he tells me everything... until now.

    Part of me thinks he is trying to put up an image of disgust when he actually may want to go. Then again, he could be so embarrassed about the whole idea that he doens't want to admit that it bothers him.
     
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    My wife doesn't give a rats ass if I go, and neither does my buddies future girl... In fact, I don't really no too many girls that do care one way or the other.
     
  21. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    Hey,
    If you guys give me enough ammo on why we should go I could just print off this thread and hand him the stack of 50 pages so he could read all the good reasons on why he should go!

    EDIT: In truth, I really want to take him there since everyone needs to do something "stupid" at some point.
     
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    I dunno, I just dont see as a 'should' go type of thing. I dont think he shouldnt go just because its a strip club. I honestly have a GREAT time every time I go and i've only gotten like 3 lap dances in my life. Its just a good time to be had with buddies, the laughs and looks are irreplacable and priceless.

    Its just another night in history for you and your buddies to laugh at over a beer 10 years from now. "Oh, and remember that one time we brought bryan to the strip club?! :bowrofl: That straight edged bastard didnt even know what hit em" :rofl:
     
  23. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Wait. Why does that matter?

    :werd: Do whatever you think your friend is going to really enjoy. Like JAO said, I would assume it's more about the comradery than it is the actual activities.

    As for his girl, she'll get over it.
     
  24. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    The point is not to put him in an uncomfortable situation that he hates or that is going to upset him. You shouldn't be forcing your friend to do something "stupid" just because he hasn't before.
     
  25. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    I agree... I hoped someone here would possibly be able to interpret his actions - deciphering what he is feeling.
     

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