Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by JohnJohnJohnson, Aug 4, 2006.
my gf's going off birth control.
And the point of this thread would be....?
are u worried that she might get pregnant if youre using only condoms? Id discuss the potential of an unwanted pregnancy with her, and what she would do if she found herself pregnant if a condom broke/ripped.
Would she have an abortion or plan-b? do either of you want children now?
If you find yourselves disagreeing on unwanted pregnancy issues, you should wait to have sex.
It would be, "Waah."
yes, she would have an abortion or a plan-b.
my GF isn't on the pill.
but she's going on the pill....but I'm still going to use a condom. I don't really want to...but I dont think either of us want to risk a child at the age of 20
good point.if your not going to have sex more than once a week, theres no point in taking the pill anyway, a waste of time and money. just be careful to use condoms properly.
sex with a condom and no bc is less safe than sex with bc and no condom, so if u r willing to do the former u should rationally speaking be willing to do the latter.
er no actually as for the sexual frustration, my gf gave me an awesome bj last night. it was v awesome. thinking about it now is making me happy. i guess i'm a simple guy in that way
There is absolutely no way to guarantee that she will follow through with an abortion. Many women change their minds after they are pregnant and the situation really hits them.
Thats why she's going on the pill so it's safer. And I'd still prefer having 2 forms of birth control. Sucks for me...but it's true
OK... in that case, here's my response:
Cheer up, emo kid!!
dude, fuck that. time to become the alpha male. make your gf get on different fucking birth control. tell her no bc, no dick dick. using a condem is like taking a shower with your socks on. you could also go route b and tell her you'd rather masturbate then fuck with a condem on. but if you say that you better live up to it and not be a pussy whipped lil bitch. either way, shes your fucking girlfriend theres no reason to use condems if shes properly taking bc.
whats a condem? you sound like a real winner.
and to the OP, I would just say consider all your options. I was on bc for 8 years and recently came off of it and I dont want to go back on it. The reason for not wanting to is because i want to give my body time to level out and get to a normal horomone level so that I dont have as hard as time getting pregnant. (this was my doctor's recommendation considering i want kids within 2 years). Me and my bf dont use condoms except every now and again. He doesnt pull out everytime either. We've been mature enough to discuss all of our options and we both know the consequences of our actions.
You're a fucking idiot.... grow up before posting in here!
She's his GIRLFRIEND. Not his WIFE. And in either case, he can't FORCE her to do a damn thing. I mean what do you suggest? Shoving pills down her throat?
hell yeah duh. hes the alpha male
LOL...bottom line, its your girlfriends body, only SHE can decide what she wants to do with it.
So, if you want her to take another form of contraceptives, look at other options such as the patch, or the shot, IUD etc.
If you REALLY dont want to depend on condoms as your only form of birth control, then dont give her any sex. Its that simple.
You have to protect yourself and your future as well. Dont be stupid like my ex-bf, who ended up getting his (other) ex pregnant.
I believe if you actually had read my post you would have been able to read what I had suggested.
I did read your post, you nutless wonder
apparently you didnt, i listed my suggestions
Yeah I read your "suggestions" that make no sense whatsoever.... you need to stop watching so much TV and movies, and go out into the REAL world.
*shrug* just because I can sometimes get away with things normal guys can not does not mean you need to get bitter at me.