Im going to make this short as possible. Im a college student,but live the not so typical college life. I work alot and very hard, while attending school at night. I have my own business, work part time for another company and go to school part time. Im almost done with school now, but i havent had many good dates. I find it very hard to keep girls interest level in me, or keep the conversation going and keep them intersted. I was pretty set with my ex,but of coarse a party happened,she cheated on me with her ex,she went back to him, he cheated again and they broke up. Im thinking about all the girls I have taken out since then, and none seemed to like me as much, have as much in common, or just take me for me. I keep thinking that i want her back, but wouldnt that be so bad??She cheated on me after being together for almost a year, so she must not have loved me as much as she admitted. I guess my life feels kinda incomplete without a girl in my life,and that is bad to say. I do have a good group of friends and stay pretty busy,but i seem to miss having that someone special in my life that seems to complete me. Suggestions? Also im pretty shy,so im not as outgoing but i do have confidence in myself. Im also at average looking,and many times from what i have been told girls think im pretty cute. I think my major problem is that I can attract the girls,but i cant hold their attention and i just seem boring.. dont contact the ex either?