basically i have 2 concerns here I went out last night to a club and there were tons of girls everywhere. Now normally this isnt a problem but this time most had X's on their hands. I noticed a cute girl I wanted to talk to but she was X'ed up as well as her friends. I just turned 27 this year so I was creeping myself out with the thought of approaching someone 18-20. Is that something I should even be concerned about. I've been feeling "old" lately and I'm forced to wear my glasses now since I can't wear contacts anymore. Making me feel and look even older. It's starting to cripple my confidence as well and I think I am beginning to "think" way too much before I approach a girl. I've only been single for 2 months after getting out of a 1yr relationship so I'd say I'm a bit rusty. Since breaking up i've only recently started wanting to go out and meet new people so I'd like to get this underway and move on from the relationship and have some fun!