I'm 19 and shes 32. Both expressed we didnt want anything serious. Im moving to New Mexico in June. According to her she hasnt been with a man for awhile. From the beginning she would always drop hints about sex. For instance I got her number and invited her to go on a group active with our mutual friends but she said no though i can come over afterwards to hangout and a few more occasions happened. We finally have sex and from my lack of self control she expressed she feels like a piece of meat and a loser. Im thinking shes using me as a boy toy and all the attention I was giving her. I was getting turned off by it. After we had sex she is calling me her boyfriend, telling her friends all i want to be is friends, expressed she thought i was using her for sex since i didnt buy her a drink and called me on the phone once saying "you can call me to talk... or whenever your horny." After she does all the above she is giving me attitude to the point I dumped her. I ignored her text and calls. She left voicemails of her crying but I didnt respond. But through all of this I developed an attraction and want to see things get deeper. So, I told her i was wrong for treating her like that and i want to fix things and be a couple in a text. When I called she wouldnt answer. She texted me "nite" so i called her but she didnt pick up. I texted asking how she was feeling and wrote back "low". This was tuesday and yesterday I texted her to cheer her up in the morning and responded with "K". then she texted me that night "hoping you had a good day at work." And today she texted asking if i was cold since i work outside. Here's my logic. She now knows I want a relationship but hasnt brought up the topic at all herself. Which makes me think if she wanted a relationship she would have. Is she just being polite and want to be friends? etc etc I know its only been a few days but damn it feels good to write it all down and get it off my chest.