I think my naturally submissive nature is getting me in trouble. Last night I went to a party (I’m in college) and I hooked up with this much older guy (I’m a virgin) The night went horrible, he didn't really do anything right, started going too hard too fast while fingering me (and my clit isn't going to respond to roughness like my body does) and I think I gave him head for almost an hour n a half. (And he didn't cum, which NEVER happens with me. I thought my jaw was going to fall off) We didn't have sex, and I didn't cum either. He did have a prince albert, but you would think that would make him more sensitive? So my thinking is that because I'm submisive, and I wanted to please this guy, that I could do something I really regret. I couldn't tell this guy no, because I felt that I was.....like disobeying him or something. Even when he was really hurting me, and it didn't feel good anymore, I couldn't tell him to stop. Am I just being a pushover? And another thing. I think he scratched me with his nail inside me. What are the possible consequences for that?