so my best friend (we'll call her susie) had an abortion about a year and a half ago. she was 18, her and the bf had been together only about 6 months when they discovered she was pregnant. they decided she would have the abortion. well it was more his decision than hers, but thats neither here nor there since nothing can be done now about it anyway. well i was with her and her bf this past weekend (they are still together) and we were shopping for his sister in law's baby shower that is coming up this month. it felt so wierd pickin out baby clothes and accessories with her. i tried to act like everything was fine, but i couldnt help but think of how this must be affecting her. and if it was in the back of my mind, it had to be in the back of hers too right?? i guess my question is, how do u handle situations like that? one of our friends is pregnant (she is 18, me and susie are both 20) and it must be heartbreaking for her to see our friend have a baby at the same age that susie got rid of hers. she asked me to help her write some ethics papers for one of her classes, and i did every topic except abortion cause i didnt want to bring up any bad memories or emotions. she took the abortion very very very hard, and it was definitely a low point in her life. has anyone else been in this situation? if so, how did/do you handle it?