Okay. So I've been friends with this girl since like grade 10, now 22 years old. She's very emotional and is also extremely depressed. She went out with this guy in grade 11 and she is still obsessing about him. He was her first, and they dated for about a year, and she still thinks that they are meant to be together because "God told her so". Nothing against believers in God, but come on now!!! So anyways she went out with another guy for 3 months or so and obsessed over him when they broke up. She's fine now from the second guy, but now she's back to the first guy. I love her to peices cause she's my best friend and she's really sweet. But how do you tell some one who's EXTREMELY emotional to just give up. That it's not going to happen. I don't want to hurt her, because I've tried to tell her this before, and she just gets upset with me and says that I''m unsupportive of her and I just don't understand. She has now given up on dating all together. What do I do?!? How do I get her to stop obsessing so much...please help me!!